Better questions, lead to better answers
Think about self-control less as the quality of a person and more as the quality of a place. There are some places and situations that lean toward lower self-control and others that lean toward higher self-control. Self-control is about your context as much as your character. Put yourself in good positions.
James Clear
Better questions, lead to better answers
What could go right? At least entertain the inverse.
When our attitude is right, our abilities reach a maximum of effectiveness […]